Interesting perspective. Although I think women in other parts of the world don’t have the choices we (in the Bay area) do. Considering that #MeToo is a global movement, we need to consider women from all socio economic conditions and their choices.
As a teenager in India, travelling by public bus, I have been groped and molested several times and didn’t really have the words or the exposure to describe how I felt. And no, I didn’t deserve it. I escaped an oppressive country because I was privileged enough to be able to do so. The oppressed often are not educated enough or able in other ways, to escape their situations.